Instead of Cosmo telling women that men cheat because we don’t please them sexually or enough, how about we look deeper than the surface – something Cosmo has likely never done – and say that perhaps it’s not about what the relationship is lacking. Perhaps it’s not that she didn’t give him enough sex to “fulfill” his desires ( the reason he supposedly cheats), but maybe it’s that his desires are unrealistically high – i.e. un-meetable in the first place.
My boyfriend & I go in Taco Bell like 3 times a week — always at night — because I love their crappy potato grillers. Almost every time, it’s the same lady taking our Taco Bell order. The process goes like this:
Boyfriend: what do you want? The potato grilers again or nachos?
ME: Potato grillers!
Boyfriend looks at the lady who’s taking our order (and obviously heard the convo) and says “two potato grillers… And a churro!” Because he knows I love churros.
The lady says to me last night “is that all you ever eat, is a churro?!” For some reason (maybe cause I’m just awkward in public settings) I feel all out of whack. I giggle and say “oh, I love the potato grillers too. Eat them all the time.”
She looks at me like I am stupid as a cat in a tub of water.
Sad part: this has happened a lot. The employees taking our order — although they hear me & my partner talking over what we’re going to get — make comments like I don’t eat & they just assume he’s the one ordering for himself only! It has become kind of rude. He does the ordering most of the time because I’m an awkward shy person, but that doesn’t mean they should jump to conclusions. They give us this look, almost like they’re saying he won’t “allow” me to eat. It’s very embarrassing. For Pete’s sake, I eat more than HE does & 9 times out of 10, he’s ordering for me only & not even getting anything himself.
So…. Talk about awkward. Am I the only person this has happened to?
Oh, and even worse! I hate when people look at him & say “don’t you ever feed her?”
WTF? I’m not his pet chinchilla. Not his dog. He doesn’t have to “feed me” in order for me to eat like a normal human being. I feed me & damn…
Am I alone in this eating world?
So this guy started talking to me on kik and it wasn’t that nice really. As you can see he called me all sorts of stuff as fat, told me to cut my wrists and to go back being anorexic. I told him I’d post our convo on my tumblr and he begged me not to since he was afraid he’s gf would see it, and I don’t want to ruin their relathionship but I’m not gonna be silent about this either. So when i told him id post it he posted a little bit of our convo instead where I called him a bitch, so now I’m getting shit for it. And not just this, he even called his own gf horrible. I’d be very very happy if you could spread this, apparently I’m not the first one.
SIGNAL BOOST THIS. MAKE THE GIRLFRIEND FIND THIS
I hope his girlfriend sees this!
This guy deserves to die alone! >:C